I realise that if a child often gets negative feedback (at home, school, wherever) they may think they will always disappoint expectations - the whole place of expectations is touchy - we have learnt that as teachers we must have high learning expectations, because it affects how we interact with the kids (e.g. how much 'wait time' we give a certain kid to answer a question) - but if a kid is sure they will fail to meet any expectations we place on them, I see that somehow they have to be part of naming the expectation (a development of self-judging). Any thoughts?
Coping strategies that kids use when trying to avoid failure and keep their sense of self-worth intact. Three common types:
- self-worth protection
- self-handicapping strategies
- defensive pessimism
Competition makes this problem worse, or classrooms that emphasise relative ability or performance goals.
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